BDSM Sex Stories – Choking & How To Do It Safely
BDSM sex stories are my favorite type of erotica, however, this is a real-life topic I’ve had a lot of experience with. It’s so much fun but also comes much danger. I’m writing this to help you have a good time when having kinky phone sex or any kind of sex.
Tip #1
Never ever put pressure on the center of someone’s neck when choking them. This can cause a lot of damage to a lot of things. Your throat has a lot of tiny muscles in it and is very easily damaged. What you want to do is find their pulse and squeeze there. It gives a great sensation. Your submissive can still breathe, however, it still gives the feeling of choking. Oxygen is cut from the brain so be warned this will loose your submissive brain cells, but it’s totally worth it.
Tip #2
Make sure your submissive or bottom is laying on their back when you do this. That, or have them leaned against you. They will lose some feeling in their body and it’s important to make sure they’re propped up or safely on their back. I like to watch their face and put my ear close to hear how they sound when I’m doing it.
Tip #3
Watch them carefully because if they turn purple things need to stop. Not only that, but it’s so much fun to watch them struggle. I might be a little bit of a sadist, but actually killing someone isn’t on my to-do list.
Tip #4
Always check in with your submissive. Also, make sure you have some signals in case things get too intense. For example one tap for stop, two for ease up, and three for harder. Since your bottom can’t speak, this works so well.
I hope these were helpful. I love to play, however, I’m not above safety. Don’t break your toys and go out and have some kinky fun!
