There are lots of parts of being an obedient Sex Submissive.
What is a Sex Submissive? First, you have to learn what a good submissive is. No Dominate wants just a sex whore. He wants a submissive who is his. However, she must learn his wants and needs. He learns hers also. It’s not her job to think it is his. In Fact, A Dominate wants his submissive to learn and grow. To push herself however with his help in keeping her safe and protected.
The Agreement Meeting
The Agreement starts off by the Dominate an the submissive setting down. First, talking with each other about what the other party is looking for. Although, both parties are allowed to express what their needs are. However, should include in and out of the bedroom. Dominates request a learning activity each day. Reading a book, writing in a journal, or taking a class. Dressing a certain way. Time limits. Also, daily chores are. What subjects are talked about? Lots of things. Like what he expects. May include waiting by the front door when he is away. Supper on the table. In the waiting position (learning submissive positions will be another blog) when he walks through the door. By this point, they are ready to talk about their sexual needs. However a good Submissive are often looking for guidance, protection, and growth. Submissives crave being guided. They crave wanting to please. This is tricky. In any case, submissives give all of themselves.
Mind-body and soul
First of all, not everyone can be trusted. Mind Body an Soul is hard to give someone. Otherwise, it would be easy. A submissive must choose wisely who to partner up with. It’s a magical gift only a Submissive can give. However, it’s a trust that you live by. If her Dominate decides its best for her to do something. She does it no questions asked. Therefore she gives him that right and choice. Based on the fact he is doing what is best for her. It’s his right to decide if she’s a sex cum whore. Instead of his favorite pet, he keeps for himself. This is agreed by both people otherwise it doesn’t work. The meeting decides what is acceptable or not. Ultimately making it very hard to find your perfect match.
Hard Limits
Hard limits are discussed. These are what each part are NOT willing to do. They should never be pushed to do. Each the Dominate and submissive should have some. They still can include anything. From wearing certain things to what she does not want to eat. As a result, it brings them closer. Matter in fact what she’s not willing to do sexually and what he’s not willing to do sexually is discussed. This is all a balance of what each other is wanting. Although some people decide at this point they are not matches. However, If your agreement is strong it will make your bond even better. All things must be discussed. There are no secrets.
The Trial period
Moving towards the trial period. This trial period is where a Dominate earns the trust of his submissive. This is where he shows her he puts her needs first. Meanwhile, where she earns her wants. If she’s good enough. The Dominates is not required to give submissives wants. Instead just her needs. However submissive is required to give her Dominate his wants and needs. This trial period is where they both show the work. Therefore It takes a lot to be a Dominate and a submissive. It’s the beginning of a magical relationship. Ultimately Building an incredible relationship both people enjoy. However, most people can not achieve this except in this type of relationship.
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