What Is Phone Sex? The Real World Wants To Know.
When people ask what I do, I tell the truth. I tell them I am a phone sex operator. Usually, the question that follows is, “So, what is phone sex? I’ve never done it before.”
My answer? “It’s the best thing since real sex!”
I know there might be some people reading this who are curious but have never actually had phone sex before. So, what is phone sex? Is it really as good as real sex? Should I try it? Will I even get turned on, or will I feel silly? Can someone really make me cum just from talking dirty to me?
I learned a lot from my first time having phone sex.
It was a disaster! It was with a friend. We had both never done it before, so we decided to try it. He was very nervous, and so was I. We talked for a little while, but he didn’t like “dirty” words and wouldn’t touch himself, so my panties stayed super dry. After about 30 minutes of talking, he stopped me mid-sentence and said, “I can’t get turned on by this. All that’s happening is I want to fuck you in real life now and I can’t stop thinking about that”. I told him to relax, and maybe we could try it again sometime, but I wasn’t going to just fuck him in real life now.
Phone sex is not an audition for “real” sex. It IS real sex. So I didn’t get off my first time having phone sex. In fact, I was annoyed. But I learned you have to be comfortable. Relax. Open your mind, let the fantasy pour in.
So what is phone sex, and why do I say it’s real sex?
Phone sex is interactive. It’s spontaneous. Once you get two horny people on the line together, anything can happen. Phone sex is part fantasy, part reality. For the fantasy part, you are totally free to explore every sexy, perverted thought that overwhelms your mind. There are no limits to the fantasies you can access to act out. This is why phone sex is a different experience from porn, too. Certain types of sex are too taboo even for porn, but with phone sex, there are no limits! No matter what your wildest, most underground fantasy is, with phone sex, you can do it with a real girl. I think that makes phone sex better than porn!
Now for the reality part. When you pick up the phone and dial my number, yes, that’s me!
I’m listening to you, giving you my full attention, painting an erotic picture with you. I’m really there; you can tell by my voice that I’m responding to you as much as you’re responding to me. Phone sex is an aural form of sex. The sound of sex plays a huge role in getting turned on. Phone sex is real sex because it is all about the moment. I’m a real woman who really enjoys sex and I am really fucking you with my voice and my words. Phone sex can be as rough, kinky, violent, deep, euphoric and intimate as real life sex.
I have had phone sex that lingered on my mind for days afterward…made me sweat and tremble…some of my most intense orgasms have been from phone sex, so to say it isn’t real sex, well, it’s just all in the way you do it!
Phone sex is therapeutic.
It’s something for you, just outside of your day to day life. It’s safe, it’s discreet, it’s an escape from the mundane. The day to day grind can really drag you down, I know. We all deserve a break, and what better relief than a little safe, no-strings-attached fantasy play with a girl who is only a phone call away? If you’ve never tried a little phone sex therapy, let me be the one to pop your cherry!
